Both same temper

Both same temper not easy to talk. Yes totally I agree!
Why I don't feel me in your first place? Isit my problem? Maybe we need to find it out.
When do you ignore me? I think not a first time and now you have ignore me. Maybe you will think why I dont care on your feeling? You have alot stress on work and I still pushing on you right?
You said must tell you when I'm not happy. Sometimes I do not want to talk it out because I know the thing will happen like now! Are you sure this is a correct way to solve the problem? Yes of cause now you can ignore me without interact with me. Yes you can continue on this way if you think this is the better way..

p/s: 你所谓的小事，因为全部小事累积而成的，现在变成大事！

Understanding

I should not hold you too much
You MUST understand what can do and what cannot do

抓得越紧，反而越抓不住！
让自己的手自然的松开些，沙反而能停留在你的掌心

Life is too short.

Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can’t change. Love deeply, and forgive quickly. Take chances, give everything, and have NO regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad, smile when you’re sad, love what you got, and always remember what you had. Always forgive, but *never* forget. Learn from your mistakes, but never regret. People change, and things go wrong, but always remember….life goes on